Moneta goddesses are visionaries. We consider a cycle of creation, manifestation, abundance and sustainability to be an underlying principle of the way we work in the world. We vision, and make vision boards. We craft creation journals, and explore new works we’re calling in. We place value on our offerings, and are able to live in accordance with our beliefs.
Sounds good, doesn’t it? But the reality is that there’s a missing step. Somewhere between creating and valuing, we have to manifest. And the mainstay of manifestation on my desk is the prioritized to-do list.
The to-do list, used well, has several functions. First, it keeps those of us with a dreamer’s mind focused when deciding what to do next. Second, it allows us to track the ephemera of our existence as it occurs, giving us space to decide where we’ll place emphasis. This ability is one example of replacing judgment with discernment. Third, we can see our progress as we move forward. Finally, it serves as a tool for manifestation, for bringing our vision step by step into existence. A to-do list is a good thing for a Moneta goddess to do.
If you took a look at my to-do list for today, it’s gaining heft due to a round of childhood illnesses my 4-year-old brought home from pre-k this month. So my final observation is personal. My to-do list weaves all my worlds into the fabric of my day, helps me make sense of the disparities and find the accomplishments, no matter how small. From my cough-and-cold induced haze, somehow not feeling very goddess like (for surely Moneta never caught cold from her children), I find this circumstance oddly reassuring.
Falling into someone else’s money story is a lot like encountering oceanic undertow while swimming an artesian well.
Still on the surface, the waters of emotion and money often run deep. When we allow a friend or colleague or client to drag us under, we allow another’s beliefs to distort our perception of reality.
Not only do we not have to fall into others’ money stories, we do not have to accept the money stories others give us as truth. This distinction enables us to discard money stories that do not work for us, especially pertinent if they are stories engrained our own identity. In my own experience, working with the archetype of the ancient Roman money goddess, Moneta, enabled me to exercise the option of rewriting my money story from a position of compassion and action. Daily and mindfully, I choose to accept the belief I can create the money to have a life that I want and love. Today, I use my gifts and talents to support myself. I hold space for that reality for others to follow.
When we choose to remain separate from another woman’s money story, but instead act as a witness to it, we support the first step to autonomy and sovereignty. We allow her to figure out a way not to let money stop her from doing what she wants. If we continue to hold the belief she can create the money to have what she wants, then we have empowered another spiritual BE-ing at the moment of transformation.
Why drown in the artesian well of a money story, when we can choose instead to drink deeply of the waters of our hearts and fill the vessel of our soul’s purpose with clear intention?
In today’s experience economy, coffee houses offer a metaphor for success. Their 1950’s beatnik roots offered unique social and artistic performance venues where cutting edge thinkers honed their craft before small, finger-snapping audiences. Today, we can revisit certain of this experience, readily observable in Ginsberg’s poetry of consciousness, Kerouac’s search for soul-centered ecstatic expression, and Audrey Hepburn’s “hip” dance routines. Today, 21st century coffee houses evolve as hubs of connection and influence in the local landscape. As such, they provide a model for growing a business in an experience economy. Here are 15 lessons we can take away with our cup of ‘joe.’
1. Let in the Light – while coffee houses of yore were tucked away in shadow, today it’s important to focus on light. Remember, we attract what we focus on.
2. Enrich the experience. We need to remember experience is sensory: the array of delectable edibles, the scent of freshly brewed coffee, do-it-yourself spices, and props (t-shirts, gifts) to enhance one’s memory. How do we trigger a feeling of connection for our clients?
3. Offer value-added extras. From free local alternative press to the paid New York Times, there’s an additional ritual here for everyone.
4. Go organic & sustainable. Key ingredients are like our core values. They shouldn’t be tampered with. Nature suggests ways of growing your business in ways that evolve organically and sustainably. By honoring flow, we create meaningful relationships with our clients.
5. Assign a number. Busy coffee houses still assign tickertapes to honor first come, first serve. To do the same, give your top three income generating activities a place at the front of the line.
6. Think in circles. Round tables, like circles, are inclusive and create a feeling of community. How can thinking in circles create new possibilities for you?
7. Specialize. Become known for your signature item, be it impeccable coffee or a to-die-for eclair. Do you have a signature offer? How can you refine your ideas into delectable offers?
8. Check out the bulletin board. The best bulletin boards frame the happenings of the community in real time and are updated regularly. Where do you need to show up more frequently in your business?
9. Go elemental. Earth, air, fire, and water are symbolically present in the kitchen of every memorable coffee house. Flour is stirred, cream is whipped, baked goods are crafted and berries are chilled. Symbolically interacting with the elements can help us set our foundations, communicate our core values, initiate action, and transform our visions.
10. Create a focal point. An altar of flowers, interesting twigs, curios, art, or music supporting your vision for the future should be present in your work space.
11. Hang a sign on the door. Being clear about when you’re “open” and “closed” helps you prioritize your time. If you have trouble saying “no,” consider hiring an assistant to say it for you.
12. Clean up messes. Deal with the shadow side of your money issue, clearing old beliefs and current financial messes. Remember, like attracts like.
13. Complementary is really a compliment. Complementary doesn’t mean “cheap.” Instead, it indicates abundance. Accept free or discounted items with delight, and enjoy the upgrade to your experience.
14. Timing is everything. You wouldn’t offer a lunch special for breakfast, would you? It’s your job to respond to changes in your audience’s preferences over time. What is shifting for your audience? What stays the same? How will you respond?
15. Offer a special du jour! Update your offers regularly. Variety is truly the spice of life. If your offers are delicious, ladies who lunch will bring their friends.